Today , as was still in my dreams at an unknown destination
with a known person , I got a loud beep
on my cell . The message was from a dear friend from the US for an upcoming
call in the next five minutes.
Still rubbing off my eyes and thinking what could have
possibly gone wrong ( the negative human that we all are ) or what possible I
could do sitting in India various thoughts started oscillating in my mind.
By the time I could figure out what had happened, the call
came in . And guess what. On the other
side there was this friend (for a lack of name and to avoid any further queries
) let’s call this person as - Riya .
She sung a melodious Aarti which she just learnt and to top it all on the piano.
What beautiful a sight can be to hear a melodious voice that
too an Aarti from far away on an early Monday morning. I felt like I was in a different air all
together . These gestures, random calls without a reason make you feel all
alive and kicked about. When people do things without a linked benefit or an
outcome expected out of it, it just simplifies your thinking and the very
existence of you .
The day , the moment we start having expectations from people
that’s the signal that we are headed onto a wrong path . It’s not bad not to
have expectations but it’s unfair to link them with other dots. I have now
realized for a fact there is just as much sugar as you can put into anything –
be it a friendship , a relationship or
even a battle with your toughest of the opponents.
Say thanks to those who entered into your life and made you
feel important. Thank those who listened to you which made you feel like you
were worth it. And also say thanks to
those who left and made you understand that nothing lasts forever . You may be
far away and not in touch with your dearest of friends but taking time out (
which I am sure you can ) and wishing them on their birthdays ( by calling )
will not only take you back to those happy times but will also do something similar
to your friend .
As most of us love surprises and
being an Aquarian , I too . So when I got
this big box of goodies from someone dear far away in Mumbai I was taken
aback. It was a mixed feeling since I never knew where we stood in life . And
when I opened the box I did feel a small tear rolling down . It’s a feeling
which you can’t describe when you are being taken care in such a way without
anything in return . It just redefines life and you as a person.
So the next time , when you feel
you are putting in a lot of effort into something or you are the only one who is going the
extra mile , sit back and get some ‘me’ space . You take my word – all this is
not worth it because no one but your heart knows when it feels loved and taken
care of . There are better and nicer people out there and when the time is right , things will fall in place . Till then enjoy the journey .
Linking back to astrology , when
you were born it was because there was a
specific combination of energies , nakshataras and planets at certain positions favorable for your
arrival. Similarly , all key events in
your life will happen when the puzzles complete a picture .
As for Riya , in case you watched
Hum-Tum , the lead characters in that case also were - Riya and Karan .But nothing would have worked
if it was not for the beautiful audience
( which in this case are you - my reader
).
5 comments:
Hey u write really well :) don't know about the girl whom you have mentioned in ur blog understand your feelings... But look around there are ppl who really admire you or say like you...just that may b they are shy so can't express themselves. Some is waiting for u may be....
@ Anonymous - Thank you for taking time out and sharing your views . As they say if you never ask the answer is always no and hence these 'shy' people need to stand up and speak up. I will be all ears for sure :)
So true - gratitude makes life better.
@ ladyfi - Echo that .
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