Old is gold !! So, you never ward of the clutter from your household ??
May be yes may be not !! That's a personal choice........or a family selection...
I don't know WHY ,but,of lately,in the gone-by year 2007 I myself have witnessed or rather seen a number of people who are still - UNMARRIED ?? !!
huh !! No . They are not waiting for me. Neither they are doing anything that high that they are fending off this "grand" celebration.
So,what is it. that is / has , blocked there path to this wonderful institution ?? I have no clues .
BUT,I HAVE THOUGHTS. AS ALWAYS.
Girls,mostly, are nearing / have crossed the age mark of 25.
This apart , some have even skipped over the 35 + mark.
Why ? Why so late ? What's the reason ?
There are an infinity of them -->
WORK PROGRESS
STUDY / EDUCATION
MAKING A MARK-CAREER WISE
SHATTERED / BETRAYED RELATION
SOME NEVER HAD THE TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT ..... :-(
WAITING FOR MR.RIGHT WAS A BAD THOUGHT
AND AND....SOME MIGHT SAY....THE MATCHES WERE FOUND BUT THE HOROSCOPES WERE NOT !!
Good enough grounds for a simple -NO.
Not your fault. May be you never thought that this would be such a high mess issue at a later stage. Now that you're settled , reasonably,you think when your good old school pals are asking you about there son's / daughter's pre-nursery admission -YOU FEEL THE HEAT.
So,what stopped you ?
Your attitude , parents , your never say give -up spirit , your work ,your study or may be your STARS.
That only you could say / tell . How do I know !! ??
All I can make out is that you're - LATE .
Yes ! Everything has a time . A RIGHT TIME. Which in most of the above cases has gone-by .
May be you were not at fault. May be you were . But,the end result is you LOST .
Had you been a little more flexible , a trivial positive and had the power to adjust you would be sitting with the "pictures of flowers/animals/sojourns , with your little ones " .
You missed it ALL.
Some would say there is NO FAULT OF OURS. AGREED !! Then is it mine !
Say YES and then be honest enough to recite your story.
Look what all went wrong , when , why and what could be done at that time.
I am sure ,solutions would flow.Even if they don't you'll be in a better position to know yourself more than anytime .
Gone time won't come .So would the gone life. So,try if you can help noone but yourself .
PS- IT'S NOT ONLY FOR FEMALES, BUT, FOR MALES AS WELL. BECAUSE IF THEY ARE STILL THERE THEN YOU TOO MUST BE NOT VERY FAR.
May be yes may be not !! That's a personal choice........or a family selection...
I don't know WHY ,but,of lately,in the gone-by year 2007 I myself have witnessed or rather seen a number of people who are still - UNMARRIED ?? !!
huh !! No . They are not waiting for me. Neither they are doing anything that high that they are fending off this "grand" celebration.
So,what is it. that is / has , blocked there path to this wonderful institution ?? I have no clues .
BUT,I HAVE THOUGHTS. AS ALWAYS.
Girls,mostly, are nearing / have crossed the age mark of 25.
This apart , some have even skipped over the 35 + mark.
Why ? Why so late ? What's the reason ?
There are an infinity of them -->
WORK PROGRESS
STUDY / EDUCATION
MAKING A MARK-CAREER WISE
SHATTERED / BETRAYED RELATION
SOME NEVER HAD THE TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT ..... :-(
WAITING FOR MR.RIGHT WAS A BAD THOUGHT
AND AND....SOME MIGHT SAY....THE MATCHES WERE FOUND BUT THE HOROSCOPES WERE NOT !!
Good enough grounds for a simple -NO.
Not your fault. May be you never thought that this would be such a high mess issue at a later stage. Now that you're settled , reasonably,you think when your good old school pals are asking you about there son's / daughter's pre-nursery admission -YOU FEEL THE HEAT.
So,what stopped you ?
Your attitude , parents , your never say give -up spirit , your work ,your study or may be your STARS.
That only you could say / tell . How do I know !! ??
All I can make out is that you're - LATE .
Yes ! Everything has a time . A RIGHT TIME. Which in most of the above cases has gone-by .
May be you were not at fault. May be you were . But,the end result is you LOST .
Had you been a little more flexible , a trivial positive and had the power to adjust you would be sitting with the "pictures of flowers/animals/sojourns , with your little ones " .
You missed it ALL.
Some would say there is NO FAULT OF OURS. AGREED !! Then is it mine !
Say YES and then be honest enough to recite your story.
Look what all went wrong , when , why and what could be done at that time.
I am sure ,solutions would flow.Even if they don't you'll be in a better position to know yourself more than anytime .
Gone time won't come .So would the gone life. So,try if you can help noone but yourself .
PS- IT'S NOT ONLY FOR FEMALES, BUT, FOR MALES AS WELL. BECAUSE IF THEY ARE STILL THERE THEN YOU TOO MUST BE NOT VERY FAR.
btw- try this tongue twister -
"Peetal ke patele mein papita peela peela pada pada papita patele mein "
3 comments:
I'll clear your doubts..
All girls waitin' for me ;)
Dhruv thr Gr8 ;)
nahe yar..
you see.. all have their own problems..
consider my case..
I loved a girl like hell... like hell.. :(
she broke off..
so now I've decided not to marry..
'Bachelor for life'..
so.. you see all have their own reasons.. :)
PS: lots of shadee talks these days on the blog.. you plannin' to or somethin. :P
@ Dhruv - Well, just because "A Girl" broke off - You're Life doesn't stops.Why should it ?
There must be something better coming up soon.
All have problems. But,if someone left one / broke off , it means he/she was NOT ALL INTERESTED / HAD THE WISH TO BE WITH YOU.
LIFE MOVES ON , SO THE JOURNEY....
SO SEND ME THE W-CARD SOON :-)
PS- shaadi talk / gyaan .....are just some social thoughts. Unless we dance @ Deepak's wedding no shaadi for the two of us :-)
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