Thursday, May 15, 2008
Change -- We believe In
Took time ! Yeah !! It did !! Blogging is not an easy walk.
Have you ever wondered that "someone" whom you never met before ( till the day they meet you) ,"someone" whom you never thought off actually comes and takes you by a stride.
"Someone" tells you something and you listen to them with apt attention. "Someone" might ask you to change or may not even say anything but the feeling remains within you that there is something to say.
This is friendship.These are relations. This is love. This is life.
I often think that when parents say something to me regularly ,what friends suggest me to do ,I never do. As in , it takes time to be performed.And then one day this "someone " comes ,tells me and vola !! I do it ~~
FIRST AND FAST !
Why ? What was it that I immediately agreed about to this "someone" ?
Is it that I don't listen to my parents or I don't value the comments of my friends. ?
NO. It's just that it doesn't gets clicked so easily.
"Sometimes when you want to click a beautiful picture IT DOESN'T COMES WELL.AND THEN ONE FINE DAY YOU CALL YOURSELF THE BEST "lensman / lenswomen" .
This is the power of friendship. Might of love. The start of a relation.
Sometimes,you need "someone" who can just come and say to you what you thought to yourself but never had the courage to implement it.
The power,the energy ,the vibes that this "someone" gives to you takes you on cloud 9.
This is what is called scope for improvement which exists in everyone.
No one is perfect. Agreed !! No one should.
But,if "someone" wants to make you close to perfection what's the harm. If the intentions are pious , the genuineness is there you should go for it.
Everyone has there own set of bad and good things which I guess everyone is aware of .We also know what is hindering us from becoming a good person. But,that vibe from within never comes that high....
This "someone" has it all .May be most.
I have seen people change or rather go through a sea change . The moment they get into a relationship it's like all guns blazing for them. They both are fresh,pious at the start and can do whatever it takes to make the other person happy. And for that some changes are needed.
Something which ONLY THIS "someone" COULD HAVE DONE.
It's good ! You learn from your mistakes and sometimes from others as well. Scope for improvement is always there . We need to sense it.
Relationships are beautiful.However, one thing which you should remember always is the change should be for your good.It does not changes the person you are.It only refines you.
You learn everyday something from someone. If you go on changing then you'll be CHANGED FOREVER .This is not desired.
"Someone once said, take only what is required , eat only how much you want to and give only as much as you have"
So,the next time a person wants to improve you , change you think .THINK AGAIN .You'll get the answer yourself.
[And who is this someone -well it could anyone.
Friends,siblings,parents,associates,people around you,even the most dull looking person at the traffic signal.Anyone.It's for you to decide,act and use your power of thinking.
All relations are good till the time TRUST IS THERE AND INTENTIONS ARE UNADULTERATED.
One said "In a relation you can give the nicest things you have and you can be one of the best persons you ever thought."
Kuch samajh aaya.........aajayega.........picture abhi baaki hai mere dost........